Energetic Protection from Narcissists, Energy Vampires & Black Magick (Home, Healing & Boundaries) Your energy field, your home & your natural energetic boundaries Your energy field extends from your physical body & exerts a subtle influence on your surroundings. In this sense, your “home” is deeply connected to you on a spiritual level. What you put into your home reflects qualities, aspirations & inspiration that derive from your soul. As someone who uses magick every day, I can tell you that having a good clear out, decorating or spring cleaning your house can be a powerful ritual with healing & manifesting benefits! It can be difficult to appreciate the reality of the energy body because most people can’t see or feel it. But almost everyone can understand it if you explain that their home is a container for it in the same way their physical body is: When you leave your home, you lock the door. It’s an important protection “ritual” that has effects beyond the prevention of theft of your property. Imagine how you would feel if someone came into your home uninvited, not to steal anything, but just to look around, admire your place & relax. Theft of physical property or physical damage to your home were not a risk. But how would you feel afterwards? Most people would say they felt violated; many would experience anxiety & insomnia & some might even choose to move away. Not everyone would appreciate how their energy was damaged by such an event – but on an energetic level, healing would be essential. Energy protection is about boundaries. It’s about creating energetic security for yourself by effectively locking the door when you want or need to. It’s about recognising when your boundaries have been breached & empowering yourself with the knowledge of how to deal with those kinds of incursions. Energy vampires, narcissists, unhealed people & energetic toxicity An energy vampire is usually a person, though there are some spiritual beings that can deplete our energy, they’re generally less problematic than people! In all kinds of connections with people, we share energy because our energy fields literally overlap on an energetic level, the reality of the “transaction” is reflected. What happens energetically could be markedly different from what seems to be going on, on the surface. Most people have had the experience of meeting someone new that seemed to “suck the life out of them” in a way they couldn’t quite explain. Sometimes it’s obvious that the person has a toxic attitude; perhaps they’re very self-centred or self- aggrandizing; or perhaps they’re very cynical & come over as negative & nihilistic; but sometimes, they can seem great on the surface – saying all the right things & observing all the right etiquette, but somehow, still leave you feeling drained & your energy disrupted. Often, their negative influence completely unconscious & unintended. It could be due to a lack of healing or unresolved trauma that’s creating conflict in their energy field; or it could be due to a temporary situation that’s creating a similar energetic dysregulation for them. But whatever the cause is, it’s important for you to protect your energy when you’re around those kinds of people because they don’t know how to (or why to) create & maintain their own boundaries. To manage those who are incapable or unwilling to acknowledge & observe your boundaries, the first step is to pay attention to those you connect with & how you feel around them. Tap into your intuition to identify the ways your energy field communicates with you. Perhaps when you’re around energy vampires, you feel emotional or find yourself feeling anxious? Perhaps you experience a physical response like a tension headache or you notice your shoulders becoming tense. The trick is to notice the feedback your soul gives you & create your energetic boundaries in response to that. This is especially important if the problem person is a work colleague or family member that you see regularly. When a toxic person’s behaviour impacts those around them, but never themselves, you can safely deduce that their behaviour is malignant or malicious. But sometimes the person who’s causing the harm is harming themselves too. If someone’s constantly sabotaging & hurting themselves & those around them, they need healing. However, that doesn’t mean it’s your job to heal them or continuously give them the benefit of the doubt – and it does mean that your boundaries are still vital! People will pursue healing when they’re ready – it’s not something you can force. Respect other peoples’ right to their own suffering because sometimes it’s an essential part of their spiritual growth. Black magick, narcissistic manipulation & energy protection Black magick is magick that seeks to violate Universal Law. It’s magick that’s used to manipulate another person or control their behaviour in accordance with your intentions. Black magick is most often carried out in the form of “love spells” where someone is trying to “make” someone love them or respond to them in the way they want. Black magick of this type always backfires – there’s no type of magick that will allow you to subvert someone else’s freewill without incurring some serious karmic repercussions! When you understand what’s going on energetically, you start to appreciate how some peoples’ behaviour can amount to black magick – and such behaviour will incur negative karma too. For example, narcissistic people habitually deceive & manipulate those around them in order to control their behaviour or achieve their own ends. This creates the same effect on an energetic level as the use of deliberate black magick. Therefore, we can alleviate some of the problems we face when around toxic people by applying the same principles we would if we were the subject of a hex or curse: energetically creating boundaries & backing them up with practical steps like limiting our exposure & not showing up to every disagreement they invite us to! Think of your energy field as your “home” & reflect on the idea that, when around “opportunistic” or “unhealed” people, you need to make sure you keep your doors locked & your curtains drawn. And that, is essentially how you make a boundary! To maintain it, you do that continuously, until it becomes second nature. It’s not easy at first, but there are a number of energy healing techniques that can be used for this purpose. What energy healing systems can help with energy protection? From Mayastar Academy of Natural Healing & Spiritual Development, the following courses are indicated for energy protection: Dark Moon Mother Protection Goddess Diana’s Mirror Shield Activation Light Sanctuary Activation Archangel Gabriel’s Empath Encoding Negative Entities Clearing Reiki Protection Healing Orb Archangel Michael’s Sapphire Flame And from Maya Magickal Spells: The Killing Moon Karmic Reversal 30-Day Ritual Intensive. 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